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How to Find More Creative Time: Six Tips From a Busy Mother of Four

November 1, 2017 by Hannah Stevenson Leave a Comment

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Don't miss these great tips! Are you a busy mom who wants more time either alone or with the kids for focused creativity? Time management can be challenging at this stage but making time for self-care is important! :) I've spent the last four years, in the midst of raising four little people figuring out how to carve out time for focused creativity. Here's what's helped! #selfcare #momtime #creativemom #momlife #momtimeideas #timemanagement #selfcareideasDo you long for time to be creative? Maybe even dream of supplementing your family’s income using your creative gifts?  I often feel that my relationship with deep, uninterrupted creative work is elusive.  So close – yet so far away! It’s like we are at the same party but on opposite sides of the room. Close enough to make eyes at each other, but all I can do is smile and wave.  And if I do finally make it through the maze of needs and distractions, creativity is long gone.  All I have the energy for is a nap!

So, I’ve spent the last six years, in the midst of raising four little people, nurturing my marriage and overall barely keeping all. of. the. balls. in the air, trying to figure out how to carve out time for focused creativity.  I’ve found a few things that help!

Here’s what is working for me:

Make a creative space

We have dedicated a section off of our kitchen area that acts as a central area for all of our creative supplies.  I also have a small desk in our homeschool room set aside for my art-making and supplies.  I’ve tried to make it easy to access supplies and just as easy to put things back when we are done.  I have found that you can really make any space work.  Whether it is atop a cupboard in the kitchen or a small desk in a bedroom.

Don't miss these great tips! Are you a busy mom who wants more time either alone or with the kids for focused creativity? Time management can be challenging at this stage but making time for self-care is important! :) I've spent the last four years, in the midst of raising four little people figuring out how to carve out time for focused creativity. Here's what's helped! #selfcare #momtime #creativemom #momlife #momtimeideas #timemanagement #selfcareideas

Include the kids (or not)

When my kids were younger (ages 4,4,3 and 1), including them in my focused painting or drawing time was pretty stressful for me.  For me, it was impossible to focus in the midst of the never-ending busy-ness and lack of attention span.  I finally decided to hire a neighbor (a former kindergarten teacher) to give us all a much-needed break.  The kids played and did crafts at her house for a couple of hours a week while I enjoyed calm, uninterrupted time to myself to focus and create.

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It was completely worth it to me to tweak our grocery budget a bit to pay for that extra expense. Once I started making money from my Etsy shop, I used some of the funds to pay for this.  I also traded regular play date times with friends and had a young girl in our neighborhood come and play with the kids while I worked.  I just figured out how to make it work for everyone.Don't miss these great tips! Are you a busy mom who wants more time either alone or with the kids for focused creativity? Time management can be challenging at this stage but making time for self-care is important! :) I've spent the last four years, in the midst of raising four little people figuring out how to carve out time for focused creativity. Here's what's helped! #selfcare #momtime #creativemom #momlife #momtimeideas #timemanagement #selfcareideas

Now that they are a bit older (ages 9-6 at this writing), I am learning that while yes, it may get messy and there are still a few interruptions, the effort in working alongside them pays in big dividends. I have also found that the practice principle works here.  The more often I do this, the easier it gets.

At this point, my kids can usually be really engaged in what they are working on.  And, I get to watch with wonder at what they do while I feel motivated to keep going on my own projects. It has been pretty cool to see our relationships naturally deepen and grow as we create together.

If you’d like to include more nature and art into your family’s life, I’d like to invite you to join us at Nature’s Art Club! It’s a club designed to get you and your family into art and nature through monthly watercolor projects, coloring pages, original poetry, and more. You can check it out here. or just click on the photo below. It makes a great gift too!

Make Time to Create

I struggle to do this when my house isn’t clean. Will my house ever be clean? Or, if I have a long list of to-dos. Will I ever have a shortlist of to-dos? But, I’m always amazed at what I can do when I give myself an hour (or two, depending on everyone’s mood) and permission to stop. sit. and create.  I rarely regret it.

Another practice we’ve started that has given me and the kids immense pleasure and lots of focused creative time is a regular date with Nature.  We venture out into our backyard and the fields that surround us and draw or write about what we see.  There are so many benefits. I’d recommend Nature Study to anyone!

Don't miss these great tips! Are you a busy mom who wants more time either alone or with the kids for focused creativity? Time management can be challenging at this stage but making time for self-care is important! :) I've spent the last four years, in the midst of raising four little people figuring out how to carve out time for focused creativity. Here's what's helped! #selfcare #momtime #creativemom #momlife #momtimeideas #timemanagement #selfcareideas

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Get supplies that make the experience better

Invest in your passion by buying the best supplies you can afford!  I try to let good supplies be my motivation.  When I started running on a regular basis, years ago, I had horrible shoes for running.  Trying to form a habit, I told myself that if I could stick with running for a month, I had permission to purchase a new pair of running shoes.  I’m probably lucky I didn’t get injured! But, it was just the motivation I needed to make a good habit. And oh! how good those new shoes felt!

I apply the same principle to art supplies.  If I can use up what I have, I get to buy something else!

Don't miss these great tips! Are you a busy mom who wants more time either alone or with the kids for focused creativity? Time management can be challenging at this stage but making time for self-care is important! :) I've spent the last four years, in the midst of raising four little people figuring out how to carve out time for focused creativity. Here's what's helped! #selfcare #momtime #creativemom #momlife #momtimeideas #timemanagement #selfcareideas

Set creative goals for yourself 

Last year I did a “drawing a day” month-long challenge on Instagram.  It forced me to make time to draw every day.  It was so fun to challenge myself.  Some days I could dedicate a whole hour, other days just a few minutes while I waited for kids in the car. The point is that it happened.

This year, my goal is to get better at nature illustration and painting.  I’ve signed up for a class (which I paid good money for) that will give me monthly assignments-basically forcing me to actually create something.

The saying, “The difference between a dream and a goal is often nothing more than a piece of paper.”  rings true here.  I try to remember to WRITE IT DOWN and tell others about it so that I feel motivated and compelled to actually make it a priority in my life.  Putting inspiring images up or even a vision board of things I’d like to get better at is powerful!

Don't miss these great tips! Are you a busy mom who wants more time either alone or with the kids for focused creativity? Time management can be challenging at this stage but making time for self-care is important! :) I've spent the last four years, in the midst of raising four little people figuring out how to carve out time for focused creativity. Here's what's helped! #selfcare #momtime #creativemom #momlife #momtimeideas #timemanagement #selfcareideas

My 2017 Vision Board

Find or Create a Community

A great way to actually do what you want to do is to find a community or class. We are so lucky to have so many resources at our fingertips. Finding an online community or class is easy and so motivating.  Finding a local community/class can be even better.   Not only to get you motivated to actually sit down and do something, but to meet others with the same goals to make friends and learn from.

I’d like to invite you to join our great community of moms and kids at Nature’s Art Club! It’s a club designed to get you and your family into art and nature through monthly watercolor projects, coloring pages, original poetry, and more. You can check it out here. or just click on the photo below. 

There are so many online communities that make it possible to learn from the comfort of your own home. Here’s a great list of some of my favorite online classes/communities.

This is what works for me.  I’d love to hear what helps you carve out time to create. Please share!

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Self-care for moms is so important! Creativity is one of the best ways to fill your bucket. Whether you are taking art classes, doing a bullet journal, paper crafting, finding time to create is good for your mental health and your relationships with others. This article gives small, easy tips and tricks on how to find more time to do it! #arttherapy #creativeselfcare #selfcare #artjournalFinding the time to create during the busy years of motherhood is not easy. But self care is so important for our mental health and relationships with others. Think of it as art therapy! This article gives small and easy ways to get creativity and art back into your life. #momlife #creativehabit #makersgonnamake #selfcare
Do you long for time to be creative? Art journaling, sketchbooks, even bullet journals are great ways. Whatever it is that fills you up creativity is great self-care. So good for a moms mental health and relationships with adults and children. Finding the time is hard but so worth it! #arttherapy #mentalhealth #selfcareShort on time but wanting to do something artistic and creative? Here's a great list of 25 creative things you can do in 15 minutes a day. Self-care is so important for relationships and mental health. These tips are small and easy! #art #create #creativemom #maker

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