I’ve spent the last 11 years, in the midst of raising four little people, nurturing my marriage and overall barely keeping all. of. the. balls. in the air, trying to figure out how to carve out time for focused creativity. I’ve found a few things that help that I want to share with you. I think you’ll find that implementing some if not all will give you some much needed focus and time to make your creative goals a reality.
Here’s what is working for me:
Make a creative space
We have dedicated a section off of our kitchen area that acts as a central area for all of our creative supplies. I also have a small desk in our homeschool room set aside for my art making and supplies. I’ve tried to make it easy to access supplies and just as easy to put things back when we are done. I have found that you can really make any space work. Whether it is atop a cupboard in the kitchen or a small desk in a bedroom.
Include the kids (or not)
When my kids were younger (ages 4,4,3 and 1), including them in my focused painting or drawing time was pretty stressful for me. For me, it was impossible to focus in the midst of the never-ending busy-ness and lack of attention span. I finally decided to hire a neighbor (a former kindergarten teacher) to give us all a much-needed break. The kids played and did crafts at her house for a couple of hours a week while I enjoyed calm, uninterrupted time to myself to focus and create.
It was completely worth it to me to tweak our grocery budget a bit to pay for that extra expense. Once I started making money from my online shop, I used some of the funds to pay for this. I also traded regular play date times with friends and had a young girl in our neighborhood come and play with the kids while I worked. I just figured out how to make it work for everyone.
Now that they are a bit older (ages 11-8 at this writing), I am learning that while yes, it may get messy and there are still a few interruptions, the effort in working alongside them pays in big dividends. I have also found that the practice principle works here. The more often I do this, the easier it gets.
At this point, my kids can usually be really engaged in what they are working on. And, I get to watch with wonder at what they do while I feel motivated to keep going on my own projects. It has been pretty cool to see our relationships naturally deepen and grow as we create together.
Make Time to Create
I struggle to do this when my house isn’t clean. Will my house ever be clean? Or, if I have a long list of to-dos. Will I ever have a short list of to-dos? But, I’m always amazed at what I can do when I give myself an hour (or two, depending on everyone’s mood) and permission to stop. sit. and create. I rarely regret it.
Another practice we’ve started that has given me and the kids immense pleasure and lots of focused creative time is a regular date with Nature. We venture out into our backyard and the fields that surround us and draw or write about what we see. There are so many benefits. I’d recommend Nature Study to anyone!
Get supplies that make the experience better
In the next section, you will get a list of all the supplies I suggest for this class. I would encourage you to invest in your passion by buying the best supplies you can afford! I try to let good supplies be my motivation. When I started running on a regular basis, years ago, I had horrible shoes for running. Trying to form a habit, I told myself that if I could stick with running for a month, I had permission to purchase a new pair of running shoes. I’m probably lucky I didn’t get injured! But, it was just the motivation I needed to make a good habit. And oh! how good those new shoes felt!
I apply the same principle to art supplies. If I can use up what I have, I get to buy something else!
Set Creative Goals for Yourself
Last year I did a nature journaling month-long challenge on Instagram. It forced me to make time to journal every day. It was so fun to challenge myself. Some days I could dedicate a whole hour, other days just a few minutes while I waited for kids in the car. The point is that it happened.
This year, my goal is to continue to get better at nature illustration and watercolor painting. I’ve signed up for a class (just like you!). Which I paid good money for (just like you!) that will give me assignments – basically forcing me to actually create something (just like you! – see, you are already doing it!).
The saying, “The difference between a dream and a goal is often nothing more than a piece of paper.” rings true here. I try to remember to WRITE IT DOWN and tell other’s about it so that I feel motivated and compelled to actually make it a priority in my life. Putting inspiring images up or even a vision board of things I’d like to get better at is powerful!
Remember Your Why
There’s a reason you wrote down your WHY. This will help you remember the core reason you want to do all of this in the first place. It will help give you the motivation you need to push yourself. Put your WHY in a prominent place that you see daily. You will be amazed at how this will help you in your HOW.
Find or Create a Community
You have taken the first step by signing up for this course! Please take advantage of the FB Group and Instagram community that is already set up and ready for you. My hope is that we will have an awesome group of supportive members cheering one another on!
Another great idea is to form a real-life artist group. This can be just a group of neighbors who love to create or even a formal group you can join in your community. I’ve found that creating and maintaining these real-life groups helps inspire me and keeps me going when I may not “feel like it” that day. I’ve also been able to make and nurture great friendships this way.